Alright, So I've been a bit lazy these days I guess. And So I've been withdrawn from this blog. You know what actually, there has been a lot going on lately, which I don't want to discuss all at once here and now. Because, you know I'm in a place from where I cannot really open up, I mean it's not right.
Anyway, I got to learn a few things, which are mostly important. I've learned that people are sometimes stubborn, and they do not in whatsoever way would like to get below you. Once they do, or may be you have climbed socially above or something you've done is good that puts you higher, then they'll go made, literally, and drive everybody around insane. The thing is, people should have PATIENCE! If you are impatient and you cannot wait then I'm really sorry to say but you have to forcefully infuse into yourself. It can be personally or by someone's help. But make sure that no outsider has to do that. If the person is your family member then it's alright, and fine. And i should be like that. But never make it too late, that someone who's totally insignificant in your life has to shout and inject in you PATIENCE! The thorns of impatient by the way are pretty bad! A lot of you might have experienced it and it's okay to have at least once, but please don't get used to it. I have gone through that too, but I really had to teach myself to wait patiently for something.
The important thing is - WE SHOULD NEVER EXPECT RETURNS FROM EVERYTHING WE GET! If we expect returns from everything we do, we will only be disappointed! So, try and be as ignorant as possible initially, and you'll see once you get returns, you'll be really very happy! The thing is if you expect nothing, but you get something, it will only lead to your merriment. But imagine if you're expecting something big and you don't get anything close to it, you can very well imagine the disappointment that will follow.
The other thing I learned is that, which I've already told you. To find yourself in life but more importantly is to create yourself in life. Now, don't take this otherwise, but don't create yourself into a monster or someone dangerous. Make yourself useful. You can do that even without all the nonsense. Also, be realistic and a bit sensible!
You know, I still remember in grade 3, my class teacher put up a placard in class which said "EVERYBODY COUNTS" and no one knew what it actually meant. She then explained "It means that we are all important". That really helped me. I mean I was never able to let go that! Now, in addition to that you also have to make yourself count. Once you know that you're doing the right thing, go ahead. Make sure you take amble time before making your decision. Don't stop once you start doing that!
Also, NEVER BE AFRAID TO BE YOURSELF! Even if people hates you, you should overlook that! Once you achieve what you're trying too, you'll see how many people likes you. I guess, I don't have to give any examples of people who went through harsh times and then reached the peak and finally is loved by many. Be that kind of person. More, appropriately BE YOURSELF.
Love Always,
Bernard.
P.S. IT'S NEVER TOO LATE TO DO THE RIGHT THING!
Anyway, I got to learn a few things, which are mostly important. I've learned that people are sometimes stubborn, and they do not in whatsoever way would like to get below you. Once they do, or may be you have climbed socially above or something you've done is good that puts you higher, then they'll go made, literally, and drive everybody around insane. The thing is, people should have PATIENCE! If you are impatient and you cannot wait then I'm really sorry to say but you have to forcefully infuse into yourself. It can be personally or by someone's help. But make sure that no outsider has to do that. If the person is your family member then it's alright, and fine. And i should be like that. But never make it too late, that someone who's totally insignificant in your life has to shout and inject in you PATIENCE! The thorns of impatient by the way are pretty bad! A lot of you might have experienced it and it's okay to have at least once, but please don't get used to it. I have gone through that too, but I really had to teach myself to wait patiently for something.
The important thing is - WE SHOULD NEVER EXPECT RETURNS FROM EVERYTHING WE GET! If we expect returns from everything we do, we will only be disappointed! So, try and be as ignorant as possible initially, and you'll see once you get returns, you'll be really very happy! The thing is if you expect nothing, but you get something, it will only lead to your merriment. But imagine if you're expecting something big and you don't get anything close to it, you can very well imagine the disappointment that will follow.
The other thing I learned is that, which I've already told you. To find yourself in life but more importantly is to create yourself in life. Now, don't take this otherwise, but don't create yourself into a monster or someone dangerous. Make yourself useful. You can do that even without all the nonsense. Also, be realistic and a bit sensible!
You know, I still remember in grade 3, my class teacher put up a placard in class which said "EVERYBODY COUNTS" and no one knew what it actually meant. She then explained "It means that we are all important". That really helped me. I mean I was never able to let go that! Now, in addition to that you also have to make yourself count. Once you know that you're doing the right thing, go ahead. Make sure you take amble time before making your decision. Don't stop once you start doing that!
Also, NEVER BE AFRAID TO BE YOURSELF! Even if people hates you, you should overlook that! Once you achieve what you're trying too, you'll see how many people likes you. I guess, I don't have to give any examples of people who went through harsh times and then reached the peak and finally is loved by many. Be that kind of person. More, appropriately BE YOURSELF.
Love Always,
Bernard.
P.S. IT'S NEVER TOO LATE TO DO THE RIGHT THING!
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